Accepting Criticism

Don’t tune out others’ critiques.

For decades, I attended writers conferences and reviewed people’s writing. Only once did I ever find a story without places I thought the writer could improve.

Fortunately, I offered these critiques in a teaching environment. In theory, people had come to learn how to make their writing better.

But human nature also played a part. What they hoped to … Continue reading

Ask for Help

No one’s an expert at everything.

This past Saturday, while working on a home improvement project, I faced a choice: I could risk injury—or I could ask my wife’s help.

I needed to trim several inches from the end of an eight-foot board. My table saw was ready. But without a third hand, I couldn’t support the board to make the cut.

I could have tried to jury-rig some kind of … Continue reading

Whatever Happened to “Awesome”?

I miss what that word used to mean.

I paid the guy at the garage sale a dollar for a picture frame.

“Awesome,” he said.

I bit my tongue. Yes, the 8×10 picture frame was still shrink-wrapped. But the most generous adjective I’d give it was nice.

I’m old enough to remember when awesome was rare. Few things truly inspire awe. Goosebumps … Continue reading